Good beyond the woods!….

There’s a language that everyone speaks when they are angry! And there’s an energy that every person emits when they are not.

When you fall in love with some one or you start to feel that he may be the one for you, it is coz your mind is fixated on number of things that you chose to notice in him apart from the basics (looks, body language, dialect etc). You check out for the obvious signs that would make you feel connected to his soul and make him worthy of your hidden treasure (pun intended !)

The thing is, it is human nature to look for “the good” in others. Our basic instinct. And when the sweet summer is over, and Autumn arrives, that is when the leaves starts to fall off the hook/tree! You witness a different side of the very person in whom you saw only good! But you repeat to yourself the words of Jammie Lannister – “Things I do for love!” and let it happen. And there comes a time when your sense of self is at extreme loss and that’s when the words of the real people who have written books on Self-help comes rushing back into your mind – “Be selfish! Love yourself! Be Enough!” And you decide to move on coz you can’t be dealing with the mess that your man is offering to you at the moment! Hence you call it off! Just like that. And you think its a no biggie, coz you have been with him for what 3-4 months off top! Its only convenient for you to walk out at this very moment!

It is convenient. But what’s its not is just! And not from the someone else’s perspective but your inner-self. Every single time you walk away from a deep rooted small connection, you lose a part of yourself in the black hole. You start believing a bit lesser. Whatever happened to the good-old days where people were willing to give other person a chance – when people were still hung over the word called “relationship” and not “Casual hook-ups or something ‘casual’ “.

Yes, this new age world has offered us a lot of things along with the power to be okay with being alone! But along with that, it has also given us the gift of mistrust , and this cynical sense which negates the existence of humanity in humans!

I wonder that whether in this big forest like world, where people are building the invisible fake woods around themselves, the reality which even they don’t know is real or not anymore, will we ever be able to break the shackles and go beyond then what meets the eye!

Able to see the good beyond the woods!